Kindred Spirits guides you through three sets of questions that get progressively more personal, helping to build intimacy and understanding.
- The Spark — Lighthearted questions to break the ice.
- Deeper Waters — Explore memories, values, and dreams.
- The Core — Share on a more vulnerable, honest level.
Each set has a 15-minute timer to encourage natural conversation.
The goal isn't to answer every question, but to have a meaningful exchange. When the timer's up, you'll be prompted to move to the next set to keep the connection growing.
Feel free to skip questions or stay on one that sparks a great discussion. It's all about the shared experience.
Often called the '36 questions to fall in love', this method is a powerful tool for deepening any relationship. Use it with a new friend, a romantic partner, a family member, or anyone you want to build a stronger bond with. It’s a tool for anyone open to vulnerability and real connection.
The questions in Kindred Spirits are inspired by a scientific study from Dr. Arthur Aron. His research found that asking these kinds of personal, escalating questions can seriously boost feelings of closeness and intimacy between two people.
Read the original study here.